Yes You Can!

Hey everyone, back for another post and some more progress reports.

This one is going to be a bit different though, I want to focus on you this time and not really about me.  I will use my own story of course, but if this blog is going to make any difference at all it has to become more about you than me.

Yesterday I did something that I literally thought was crazy just a year ago.  I did a GoRuck custom event!  Turns out it was the biggest custom GoRuck event in history!  How cool is that?  So you're already thinking, what is GoRuck?  Glad you asked!

GoRuck, or rucking is a civilian's best chance without enlisting to find out what a Special Operations' or Special Forces training regiment is like. The event I participated in was called a Light.  Light doesn't mean easy, no way.  Light refers to the fact that you're doing the event during the day.  Many of the other GoRuck events take place mostly at night.

GoRuck: Red Light & Blue took place in Charlotte and supported Charlotte Bridge Home, an amazing organization that supports our troops in the Charlotte area and assists them in so many ways like helping them with their job search after leaving the military.

OK so I have to give a bit of background on myself to give you a picture of where this is going.

December 2013 after many months of frustration in finding a diet (in the best sense of that word) that would help me to lose the weight I'd been carrying around for years I came across the 5:2 Diet, as I've mentioned several times.  To date I'm down 40 lbs.!

In March 2014 I joined F3 and took the fitness part of the puzzle to a new level.  I was working out before, but F3 certainly kicked my rear into another gear.  Hey, that rhymed.

One of my friends at the time joked that I would be doing a ruck event before I knew it.  I laughed because I never really dreamed he would be right.

Yesterday's ruck was an amazing way to celebrate 9 months of weight loss and life transformation, but again this isn't about me, it's about you.

You are facing a battle every day I have no idea what it is.  You may be battling financial hardship, I've been there.  I didn't know where money was going to come from at one point in 2013.  But I got through it by the grace of God, prayer of good friends and determination to not give up.  You can too.

You may be struggling with your weight, I was obviously there too.  At least twice in my life I weighed around 300 lbs., probably over 300.  I can tell you that you CAN do something about your health.

You could be immobile, but you can still do something about your health!  You can eat better, drink water, make food choices that boost your body, soul and mind and not tear them down.  I've seen so much lately that when the body is in balance, the mind, soul and spirit are all lifted.  This all has to start in your spirit and you have to dig down and find that fire in the belly, but once that desire finds its way out to the body, the body can then end up lifting the spirit as well.

You may have major drama in your family that rips apart your soul on a daily basis.  You may turn to food, drugs, alcohol or abuse of your body to deal with the pain.  You MUST understand that you are so precious, YOU are worthy of respect.  Every human being of this planet regardless of their outward appearance or attitude is still worthy of respect and that includes YOU.

For so many years I put myself down.  In my head I was my worst critic.  No matter what I did, it wasn't good enough.  No matter how I looked, it wasn't good enough.  If this is you, STOP.  Stop right there and learn to love yourself, right where you are no matter what mess your life is in.  If you can never love yourself, you will never have any love to share with another in this life.  And if you can't share love, then you are going to have a very lonely existence.

And this brings me back to the ruck.  The ruck events, even the Light (which again isn't easy), but is the easiest of the options to choose from will push you to a point where you have to choose what you are going to do.  Are you going to quit?  Or are you going to dig down inside yourself to the pit of your being and keep going.  This applies not just in doing a fitness challenge like I did, but in life.

Our society at one point celebrates winners, and at the same time tells us it's OK to quit.  No problem at all, everybody quits.  Well you aren't everybody, and I hope when times get tough in life that you won't quit but keep going.  Sometimes you just have to stand still in life when the hurricane rages around you, and just be still.

I hope this post reaches you and you will be encouraged by the humble story of a guy that has gone farther than he could ever imagine and hasn't arrived yet.  I'm still pushing, still have struggles and bad days.  But Lord willing I will continue to grow, get stronger and continue to push myself until I drop dead or the Lord calls His children home.  Wouldn't you rather live that way?  Why just settle?  So many people do and rarely look back on their lives with much joy.

Love to you all, and until next time "Please sit on your sandals!".

Aye!